A little background info....

I have been dealing with medical issues regarding my reproduction capability for the last three and a half years after a very bad miscarriage situation. As I was working through a difficult period one day I realized that more and more people and characters around me seem to be dealing with similar circumstances. TV shows, movies, neighbors and friends are struggling because they cannot or may not have children. This is a place to express my feelings about my situation and hopefully help someone else express theirs.

I may not know what other mothers know, but I am a mother without my child and I do what I can to cope.

Thursday, April 28, 2011

Bent the rules......

So I mentioned before that I was going to talk to my friend JBU about my feelings about wanting to quit my medical treatments and just see what happens.  I didn't end up doing that but I did talk to the wonderful SC and she had the exact opposite feeling than I thought she would.  She has been through some similar medical issues before I was close with her and the last few years have been spent slowly sharing our experiences with one another.  As much as I wish things like this had never happened to her it is indescribable how much easier it is to talk to her than other friends who haven't been there.  It is definitely nice to talk to someone who knows.  She made a great point to me while we were talking, I have great doctors and lots of support and the flexibility at work and home to do whats needed to get me to the healthiest place I can get to.  She regrets quitting her treatments and is in a sort of difficult spot now because its really hard to start over.
So thanks again SC, you are a great friend and a huge help.  Love you.

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