A little background info....

I have been dealing with medical issues regarding my reproduction capability for the last three and a half years after a very bad miscarriage situation. As I was working through a difficult period one day I realized that more and more people and characters around me seem to be dealing with similar circumstances. TV shows, movies, neighbors and friends are struggling because they cannot or may not have children. This is a place to express my feelings about my situation and hopefully help someone else express theirs.

I may not know what other mothers know, but I am a mother without my child and I do what I can to cope.

Thursday, December 8, 2011

It Happens

I read a short article here that says Michelle Dugger of 19 Kids and Counting had a miscarriage in her 2nd trimester.  That's a sad thing to hear, but I thought all of the nasty comments after the article were even worst.  It is not anyone's right to tell you when to have kids or how many is enough, telling any mother she 'deserved it' or that 'it was a sign' is just disgusting.  You don't have to agree with what she does but how can you really tell someone its a good thing they lost their child?
People are gross.

1 comment:

  1. AMEN! I didn't even look up any articles or blogs about the miscarriage. I just knew that kind of crap would be out there. A loss is a loss no matter how many she has. People SUCK.

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