Why is abortion a tragedy when miscarriage should be kept quiet?

Disqualified Grief

This article above was posted on facebook by a friend/family member of mine and I thought it really meant a lot.  This woman fights and grieves for abortion reform with other pro lifers but when she honors her child taht was lost they are tense, weird, uncomfortable and discount her feelings.  We ALL should recognize that grief is not something we should ignore and losing your child at any age, at any time is difficult.

Couples who have used a serrogate

http://omg.yahoo.com/photos/surrogate-celebrity-babies-1346355394-slideshow/#crsl=%252Fphotos%252Fsurrogate-celebrity-babies-1346355394-slideshow%252Fbill-rancic-giuliana-rancic-photo-1346355170.html

Woman births grandson

My mom would be all over this lol

http://gma.yahoo.com/blogs/abc-blogs/surrogate-mother-61-gives-birth-her-grandson-193646393--abc-news-health.html

woman has daughter's baby

http://shine.yahoo.com/parenting/maine-woman-gives-birth-own-grandson-195700142.html

Beyonce miscarriage

I'm not one who usually follows celebrities and their lives but I do think that I will be watching this show about Beyonce.  I like that she keeps herself private and doesn't do everything for show and I admire anyone who is strong enough to talk about their miscarriage and what that felt like to such a large audience.
http://tv.yahoo.com/blogs/celeb-news/beyonc%c3%a9-knowles-opens-miscarriage-hbo-documentary-164332683.html